Meet a globally minded Japanese woman ready to build a life across the Bay Area and Japan.
Marry Japan connects founders, engineers, operators, and investors with globally minded Japanese women seeking a committed relationship, marriage, family, and a shared future.
Take the First StepA refundable $2,000 deposit is paid with the application. If you decide not to proceed after the first conversation, it is returned in full.
For men whose careers moved faster than their search for a partner.
This search is designed for a specific kind of man: financially established, intellectually curious, private by nature, and ready for partnership.
- You have little appetite for public profiles, high-volume swiping, or repeated first dates with no shared destination.
- You are drawn to Japanese culture and women, and want a person rather than a stereotype or fantasy.
- You can speak plainly about marriage, children, geography, and the tradeoffs of an ambitious life.
The women you will meet
Globally minded Japanese women who want marriage and family, and who choose you for the whole person rather than a résumé or balance sheet. Every woman decides independently whether to explore an introduction, and none are paid to take part.
How it works
Apply
Answer a short private questionnaire and pay the refundable $2,000 deposit that reserves your screening.
Private screening
A 1–2 hour video conversation that turns your actual life into matching criteria, so nobody discovers on a first date that one person wants Tokyo and the other will never leave Palo Alto.
Introductions, one at a time
Each woman is personally sourced, researched, and assessed through multiple stages before we introduce someone we believe is an exceptional fit. You meet only when you have both said yes.
Support through to commitment
The person who interviews you is the person doing the matching. You can reach them directly on WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal, or email from screening to long-term partnership.
The screening covers the questions that usually end relationships late, so they are answered before the first date:
- Marriage timeline
- Children
- Where life happens
- Relocation
- Work and ambition
- Language and culture
- Family expectations
- Everyday compatibility
We won’t sell you anything before we know we can help.
Your first conversation is a mutual screening. The $2,000 deposit is fully refundable if you decide not to proceed, or if we decide we cannot help. After that, you pay only when an introduction leads to a date.
Take the First StepQuestions
If yours isn’t listed, write to hello@marryjapan.com and we will reply personally.
What does it cost?
You pay only as the search succeeds. The $2,000 deposit is the only payment before an introduction.
| Application and private screening | $2,000 deposit, refundable |
|---|---|
| Mutual registration | No additional charge; the deposit becomes your registration fee |
| Each introduction that leads to a date | $5,000 |
| Mutual exclusivity | $10,000 |
| Long-term partnership | $50,000 |
You decide one introduction at a time. The long-term partnership fee is due only when the relationship reaches the agreed long-term milestone.
What happens to the $2,000 deposit if I do not proceed?
It is refunded in full. The deposit is paid with your application and reserves the 1–2 hour screening. If you move forward after the conversation, it becomes your registration fee. If you decide not to proceed, or if Marry Japan determines we cannot help, there is no registration fee and the deposit is returned.
Who is the service currently designed for?
Financially established men in technology, typically under 40 with a net worth of $1M or more, who want marriage and family. At this time, our matchmaking service is focused exclusively on introducing men and women seeking heterosexual, committed relationships. We recognize that meaningful relationships take many forms, and we hope to expand our offerings in the future.
Does qualifying financially guarantee acceptance?
No. Net worth describes the audience, not the standard for character. We also look for emotional readiness, integrity, cultural openness, and a credible desire for marriage and family.
Are women paid to participate?
No. Every woman chooses independently whether to explore an introduction. An introduction happens only when both people have reviewed the opportunity and expressed interest.
Do I need to speak Japanese?
No. We work with women who speak conversational to fluent English. But it certainly widens your pool if you do!
Are all women willing to move to the United States?
No, but many dream of it. Geography and relocation preferences are clarified before an introduction, so neither person enters the first date with a hidden incompatibility.
Can you search for someone open to building a life in Japan?
Yes. We can introduce and coordinate qualified professionals to assist with immigration, visas, tax, and legal advice if you would like to relocate to Japan.
How private is the process?
There is no public profile to browse. Personal information is shared selectively and only for a potential introduction, with both people’s consent.
Start with a private conversation.
Refundable $2,000 deposit · 1–2 hour screening